How to stop relying on referrals and create your own demand.

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How to stop relying on referrals and create your own demand.

You don't realise referrals a trap until you hit a tough spot. When your contacts and clients are recommending you, there is no problem.

But then someone retires, a clients moves roles or a client leaves and there is no pending deals to fill the spot - you see how exposed your business really is.

This is why I'm a strong advocate for social selling, because it's a low cost way to create demand so you don't face a gap or feast and famine.

Social Selling is really simple.

It's about building trust with your ideal clients before you ask anything of them. In some ways it's the opposite of classic sales. In most sales environments, the seller will email, call and outreach to get an appointment and the trust building starts on the call.

Social Selling is the opposite, building it ahead of time. 

I've shared this diagram before, but it's a good example of how it works: 

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When you are reliant on referrals, you essentially have no ecosystem beyond your referral partners. They use their trust to get you in the door.

In social selling, especially for expert-led businesses like consulting, coaching and MSPs for example, the trust pieces is essential - people are considering you for very sensitive work - that is critical to their business.

So trust has to come first.


How do you build trust? 

Trust is about three things, relevance, consistency and evidence. 

What many people do on LinkedIn or social media more widely to promote their business is promote, but buyers are researching earlier and talking to people later.

We don't trust people trying to sell things, we become cautious. 

But we do trust people who understand us, understand our world and have stories of other people like us, who've benefited from working with you.

That's what you need to do. Not promote, but share trust building content through your profile and your content.

  • Talk about situations they'd recognise in their world.
  • Share reflections from your experience.
  • Share stories of other clients getting results.

How do you get clients?

Lead generation is simple if you are building trust. I have 5 ways I show my clients, not so they can do all of them, but so they can master one of them.

If you've got most of your business from referrals, I'm going to be honest with you, it is highly likely that your current way of thinking, operating and managing new business is not fit for purpose.

If you got 50 leads today and for the last year you've only dealt with referrals, you are likely to mishandle the leads. Not because you're a terrible person, just because you are used to leads with very high trust levels - essentially - yours to lose.

With leads from social selling, they have a level of trust, but not the same level as a personal recommendation from someone - that means, if you don't have a tight process you will lose those leads.

These are my top ways to get clients from LinkedIn:

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If you'd like to know more about any of these I have a quiz which will score you against each one and give you a write up about how it works.

https://www.5pathstogettingclients.co.uk/quiz


How I help you

The goal isn't to stop asking for referrals. It's to build a second source of demand that you control. LinkedIn is one of the best places to do that, where else can you reach 1.3 billion people?

Done well, it means you can:

  • Find exactly the right audience quickly.
  • Build trust, credibility and visibility without spending hours a day on it.
  • Win clients consistently, without relying on referrals alone.

It comes down to three things working together: your proposition, your pre-selling and your pipeline. This is how I help executive coaches, professional services firms, advisers, consultants and technical founders build them:

  • Get clear on your goals and the number of clients you want to win.
  • Proposition: sharpen your positioning so the right people understand your value and find it easy to buy.
  • Pre-selling: build trust through your profile and content, so prospects arrive already trusting you.
  • Pipeline: create a simple, repeatable flow of leads, conversations and clients.

No paid ads. No pushy tactics. No posting every day.

Most clients launch within 30 days (depending on your bandwidth) and start seeing leads in the first 60.

If you'd like my coaching and support to build this, schedule a call here.


About Dean

Dean Seddon is a global social selling expert with 15 years’ experience helping sales teams, consultants and business owners generate revenue through LinkedIn and social selling. Through Maverrik, he has trained more than 25,000 salespeople and business owners and helped clients generate over $100m in revenue.

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